About Me

I am Stephy, 110lbs 5'7", Brown hair, hazel eyes, i love singing, And that is my ministry, i am in choir at church although i have been majorly slacking on that lately. I work full time as a medical assistant, which is extremely stressful at times. Ummm i have some pretty cool friends :-D. I have three older brothers, two neices, and a nephew. I have a dog, cat, fishes, and bird. I love music, especially Hardcore and Emo. I love surfing, i cant get enough of it. Annnnd the BIG question...DO i have A boyfriend?....HELL NO. I tried dating a few times and i just havent found anyone that i think is worth going through the struggles of a relationship with. So i am waiting right now, and he'll just come along sometime. I can pretty much determine if i want to be with a guy after i find out certain things about him. Like....how many girls he has been with, if he smokes, drinks etc. I have alot of trust issues because i gave my heart to a fuckass and he killed it. Despite the fact that i am "so sexually open and a druggy" i like boys that ARENT sexually open or druggies...so ya. I like good boys, truthful people. I hate liars.

This sums up my beliefs here:

Women are like apples on trees.... The best ones are at the top of the tree. Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.... So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing! They just have to wait for the right man thats willing to climb all the way to the top of the tree for them. And Men....Men are like fine wine They start out as grapes, and its up to Women to stomp the shit out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.

"1 Corinthians 7:
7- I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.
8-Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am.
17-Nevertheless, each one should retain the place in life that the Lord assigned to him and to which God has called him.
27-Are you married? Do not seek a divorce. Are you unmarried? Do not look for a wife. But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.
32-I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord's affairs--how he can please the Lord.
33-But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world--how he can please his wife-- 34-and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord's affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world--how she can please her husband.
35-I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord."